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Birthdayography #011: BIG List of Birthday Party Games...
March 30, 2004

The BIG List of Kid Party Games
(and important kid game survival tips...)

March 30, 2004
Issue #011

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First off, take a look at the BIG list of Kid Birthday Party Games with over 200 birthday game ideas (way more than you'll ever need…) now organized into easy-to-find categories and themes. Whenever you're looking for the coolest kid game ideas – you know where to go.

Every kid birthday party is different.

Indoors, outdoors, five guests, fifty-five guests, boys, girls, Army theme, Princess Theme… But one thing's for sure – at some point they'll be playing GAMES.

Now, I'll decorate, I'll bake, I'll wrap all the gifts and hand-deliver all the invitations. Heck, I'll even clean up after everyone leaves.

Just don't put me in front of a throng of kids when it comes time to entertain them!

At least that was my initial reaction when first faced with the BIG question – how am I going to survive an entire hour (at least) trying to entertain a mob of children at my daughter's birthday party?

I had two options:

Either PAY an arm and a leg and have a professional entertainer do it for me.

Or, take a deep breath, prepare myself as best I could and do it myself (and risk the loss of an arm and a leg in the process…).

If you're a devout adventurer and choose the latter (like I did), here are a few observations (e.g., survival tips) that may come in handy next time you take on the challenge:

Prepare in Advance

During the party you'll have so much on your mind that it's best to prepare as much as possible in advance. Make a list of games and write them down in the order you plan to play them. If any of the games involve music (like musical chairs, hot potato, etc.), prepare the music ahead of time with the stops so that you don't have to deal with it during the party.

As mentioned above, you'll find loads of game ideas in the Coolest Activities section, but…

Not Too Many Games

Don't be tempted to play fifty games in sixty minutes. Kids'll usually become bored quickly if they are asked to play too many games. You'll need only a handful of games, so choose those that fit your party theme, and…

Stick to the Classics

Creative and original games are fun, but they may also be a bit risky because the kids are required to learn something new. I'm not saying DON'T play new games, just make sure there are a few classics in your arsenal. Musical Chairs, Hot Potato, Pass the Present, etc., were around when we were children. And they work. So don't be concerned that you'll “bore” the kids with the “usual” games. You can always add a special twist to make them look and sound more attractive.

Now that you've got a list of games and the music is ready, how do you make sure the kids participate and have fun?

It's a Birthday Party, Not a Democracy

Avoid asking the kids if they WANT to play a certain game. They may just say NO. Tell them what the next game is – without any questions and without any options or room for deliberation – and make it sound intriguing. For instance, what sounds better?

“Who would like to play Hot Potato?”


“Our next contest is Blazing Potato where you can all win some great prizes just by sitting in a circle”.

And if they still object…

Be Firm

One child voicing his objection to a certain game can become an instant epidemic. And suddenly you've got a group of little protesters on your hands. The first time this happens, be firm (in a kind sort of way) and just let them understand that they were invited to the party and they need to play. This may sound a bit too harsh for such a fun gathering, but it lets the kids understand that you're in charge and you're not about to let them ruin the fun by sitting out and distracting the others.

And now that you've got everyone ready to play, remember one of the most important factors to making the games work…

Don't Rush

Give the kids ample time to play each game and that way you don't need a zillion games. Take Hot Potato for instance. The kids all sit in a circle and the hot potato is being passed around to the sound of music. Let the music play a few beats before it stops. Sometimes, because you may be nervous to get things going, the music is stopped so fast that the kids don't have time to enjoy. Choose music that the children know and can sing along and have them pass the potato under their arms, above their heads, across the circle, etc. Find ways to make it fun and you'll be able to turn this classic into a long-lasting game.

But there's one thing you should beware of…

The 'Danger' of Sit-Out Games

Let's go back to Hot Potato. The kids pass the potato and whoever is “stuck” with it when the music stops is usually out. And as the game goes on, there are more and more children sitting around just watching (if you're lucky…). And that may translate into trouble. So instead, you can play the game without anyone being out. How? Place a bunch of giveaways in the center of the circle and the child who is “stuck” with the potato when the music stops gets to choose a prize. This way you also have control over the length of the game because you can finish whenever you like and not when only one kid remains.

(If there's a game in which you can't work around having the kids sit out, turn them into judges and have them help.)

And one last note regarding the…


Prizes don't have to be large and expensive. They can be trinkets or sweets. It's the challenge of winning the prize and not the prize itself that most appeals to the kids.

Consider handing out the prizes at the end of the party instead of right away. Show the winner their prize, and just tell them that it'll be put in their favor bag. This way, the prize won't become a distraction during party time. And, at the party's end, everyone gets a prize – the favor bags – so if a few kids have a few more goodies, it really doesn't matter.

Dear, I hope you've found this helpful.

Have a really COOL day!

Elad the Birthday Dad

P.S. Birthday Express is having a really cool sale right now on Princess Partyware and Knights Partyware - two of the most popular kid birthday themes. If you've got such a party coming up, it's worth your while to check it out.

P.P.S. I'll soon be having some really, REALLY BIG news to share, so keep a watch out for the next edition of Birthdayography.

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